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屡败屡战 - 月圆求职记(2)

 
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文章时间: 2009-1-26 周一, 下午2:05    标题: 屡败屡战 - 月圆求职记(2) 引用回复

大四时去实习,协助教育部做一个毒品教育的培训项目。教师出身的项目经理安娜临别赠言,“你已经准备好了,在少数族裔社区工作绝对没问题。”我学冰雪聪明的阿庆嫂那样听话听音锣鼓听声,嗅出该评语的潜台词是:要进入主流社会机构你还差了点。

前半句肯定了工作能力,后半句指出了英语对我职业发展的限制。教师出身的,评语就是到位。

安娜的预言果真应了验。才走出校门几天,就过分顺当地在一家越南人经营的机构谋了个职位,工作对象主要是来自越、棉、寮、星、马、泰等国,还有中国大陆、香港和台湾的长期失业者。

工作本身饶有趣味,当家的却无耻得令人发指。

但我还是忠于职守。第一年,入行、熟悉业务;第二年,兼职修读研究生证书课程。两年后,公司失去政府合同,在意料中结业。这时,我除了拥有适当的行业经验和合理的就业史,还增加了一个职业资格。

顺理成章失了业,我对自己说:“现在,你已经准备好了,在主流机构工作绝对没有问题。”然后破釜沉舟,投身到招聘市场。

跟命运较劲其实一点不好玩。什么程序什么套路,什么该做什么不该做,什么该说什么不该说,全都没谱。承蒙毛主席他老人家对我少年时代的洗脑,让我到这时候了还有勇气去品尝梨子。

洋人阿标给我打气,“我很清楚,你会是个非常称职的人。聘用你是雇主的运气。”

接下来还认真告诫,“求职是一门学问,你得把它当作大学里那些作业去对待。”

当我因为接到第一个面试通知而兴奋,阿标郑重其事地给我降温,“别指望一两次面试就成功。要积极行动,但把它当作积累经验,你就不会失望。”还临阵提醒我“记住向雇主展示你的诚实与牢靠。”

我失败而归,都哭丧着脸了,阿标倒呵呵笑着,“瞧,你有经验了。下次,一定会表现得更好!”

洋人阿标从1989年开始跟我学普通话,也扶持和见证了我在澳洲这些年走过的每一步。我们有个约会,每个周末早晨聚在一起喝咖啡,风雨无阻,至今不变。

按常规,一份好简历会带来百分之五十的就业机会,余下百分之五十就看面试表现了。实际操作中,恰恰面试最令人生厌。你被好几双挑剔的眼睛从不同角度无情审视,都快无地自容了,还得端着个姿态表现自己多么自信得体。你明明提着心吊着胆,手心或者胳肢窝渗着汗,差点没崩溃了,还得强打精神伺候没完没了的问卷,生怕些许怠慢导致前功尽弃。

这算常规体验了。曾有过一次我面试史上最难堪的经历。

当日我驱车50多公里跑到海滨城市Frankston面试,见了一个越南男人和一个洋女人。越南人自我介绍是未来的分部经理,我将与他共事 - 如果得到这个职位的话。而女人是他的头儿。

洋女人在面试进行了十分钟时突然告辞,此举让我很不舒服。更难堪的是,越南人在他的头儿离场之后立马放下职业面具,阴阴笑着对我说,“你知道她为什么离开吗?因为她对你没兴趣。”丝毫不理会或者假装不理会那对应试人的自尊心会有多大伤害。

越南人甚至开始演说,津津乐道他的成功史、他面试过的如云高手;并预言由于语言障碍,我的职业前景将会多么渺茫……

很奇怪,我竟然没有拍案而起,然后拂袖而去,一如理想中那般刚烈、潇洒。

相反,在体验了他强加予我的窘迫与难堪之后一霎那,我决定放弃与这个机构发展进一步关系的意图,转而展开纯粹人与人的交流。这时,自控力发挥作用了。

我还以微笑,顺势接过越南人的话题:“那么,根据您的经验,她为什么对我没兴趣呢?”之后二十分钟,引导对方在善意氛围里尽量发扬其自大感和虚荣心,而我则从中捕捉通往成功的信息。结果我成了交谈的主导。

前半辈子的面试,似乎全在2003年那两三个月内经历了。若要搬出一个词去形容那段日子,非“屡败屡战”莫属。

人生与选择共存。既选择了,就得接受、面对、学习因着选择而来的一切,从磨砺中提升自我,建立或重建信心。心里十分明白,这个信念将支撑我在屡败屡战中继续前行。
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